The north and south nodes of the moon are the most karmic part of astrology. They are the opposing points in the moon’s orbit that intercept the ecliptic path. They’re always exactly opposite from each other in our birth charts. It’s important to know both the signs and houses that they’re in.
The south node represents energy we carry from our past life or our childhood, or both. Our south node sign is almost like a second sun sign. It’s a major part of our personality. The energy of our south node is familiar to us. We feel very comfortable and safe in it. It shows part of where we’re most gifted, and it also shows a deep longing or craving we may have.
Opposite from our south node, our north node sign and house is the energy we are meant to grow into and explore in this lifetime. It feels unfamiliar, unnatural and even scary to us, especially if we don’t have any other planets in its sign or house. When I describe friends’ north node placements, I hear them say things like “oof, that’s so hard for me” or “that’s my worst nightmare.” But the thing about the north node is that it does already live in us. We are gifted in its energy too. We’ve just learned to either repress it, avoid it, or not claim it in ourselves. For example, say your north node is in Leo and one of your parents displayed Leo energy in an unhealthy way, like acting super cocky or self-absorbed. You saw how people reacted to them and you didn’t want to act anything like them. This is how traits get repressed. We tend to overcorrect and throw out more than just the undesirable expression of the sign. But there are also wonderful expressions of Leo, like being a confident, courageous and warm-hearted leader.
When it comes to our north node, it really helps to be aware of it so we can give ourselves permission to own it more and more. We can use its sign and house as an overall compass direction for our growth, but also practice its expression in everyday situations. I talked about my Aries and Libra imbalance in another post. My north node is in Aries in the 10th house. I have to consciously practice acting more like an Aries. It doesn’t come easy for me. As an example, it can be hard for me to leave social situations when I want to. I wait for a good moment, based on the timing of conversations, when other people will be leaving, etc. I tend to measure it by others, instead of my own simple readiness to leave. And sometimes I’ll be sitting somewhere a good hour or more longer than I want to, and in my head I’m like umm why am I still here??? Aries energy is better at just doing what it wants, when it wants. So now when I want to leave and feel my normal hesitancy, I think “Court, you have an Aries north node… GO. LEAVE. BE FREE!” And it can feel a little scary to interrupt conversation to make an exit, but when I walk out I’m like HALLELUJAH!
The house matters too. With my north node in the 10th, my south node is in the opposite 4th. This gives an added layer to the interpretation. The 4th house is ruled by Cancer, and it’s the house of our home, our roots and our psychological foundation. It’s our private, inner world while the 10th is our outer world. The 10th house is ruled by Capricorn and it’s the house of our career, our professional lives, and how we are in public. So with my SN in the 4th, I’m very comfortable in Cancer energy. I’m a homebody, introverted type. I can spend consecutive entire days at home without seeing anyone, easily. And it doesn’t really scare me to dig into my psychology, emotions and background. I actually really love that stuff. But 10th house and Capricorn energy is intimidating for me. I have a lot more insecurity around everything to do with the 10th: how people see me, what I do for work, going after goals. I look at Capricorns like Michelle Obama and Kristin Cavallari (I know, interesting choice combo) and admire so much about them. For me, it feels so much safer to hide from the world, spend my days at home doing yoga, journaling, watching Netflix, doing whatever. I love a rich inner life and I feel at ease there. But I’m meant to develop my professional/public life. And I’d be totally playing small, out of fear and insecurity, if I never pursued the things I want professionally. Or if I never let myself be seen in that capacity. While someone with the opposite placement (NN in the 4th) might be very comfortable with 10th house matters but afraid to really dig into their inner psychology, feel their feelings and examine their roots.
It actually really helps to hang out with and observe the people in your life who have their sun, moon or other planets in your north node sign or house. You can learn a lot from them about the energy it would serve you to embody. I look to learn from the Aries in my life, the Capricorns, and the people who have 10th house energy.
I also mentioned the longing quality of our south node. Its house and sign represent something we really crave in this lifetime. For me, with a SN in Libra I have a deep longing for a partner, and in the 4th I crave a safe, happy home life. But we can’t quench the longing of our SN by staying in its familiarity. I have to step out of my comfort zone, own my Aries traits, and work towards my career desires despite all the fear. The NN is the key to fulfilling the desires of our SN. The more we step into our NN energy, our SN longing takes care of itself. And it’s filled in a way that’s healthy for us. Usually unexpectedly, or by means we wouldn’t have chosen from the limited lens of our south node.
We have to be aware of how our south node is keeping us small, and explicitly ‘practice’ our north node. We don’t need to let go of our south node, we just want to transform the less-than-healthy aspects of it, which are active precisely because we haven’t been exploring its opposite sign and house. I’m always going to love being a homebody, and reaching for the 10th house doesn’t mean I can never have those reclusive days. It just needs more balance. When we begin to take action from our north nodes, that balance works its magic and our south nodes automatically become healthier.
If we feel frustrated or stuck, the north node is the key to getting energy flowing in our lives. The more we learn to explore and embody the energy of our north node sign and house, the happier our spirit will be. Because stepping into our north node means we’re stretching and growing. Not staying stagnant and small. We feel better about ourselves because we’re not just doing the same old same and we can tell that we’re progressing, even if it’s in some quirky little ways that are only meaningful to us.